People ask why MGTOW? Well, read on and you’ll see another example that clearly answers that question. More to come, so this is my first posting of a real-life currently-active traumatic scenario that answers that question to any doubters.
I wanted to start with this because not only does it clearly demonstrate the horror that can occur to men/fathers in divorce, it’s one that happened to a very close friend. Again, real-life, FACTUAL, and sadly common to men/fathers in divorce.
I’ve lost 5 friends that took their own life due to divorce OR dating. This is stuff is real and you’ll see what can happen.
I have a full-time job. I do this in my free time (which is little). I don’t have to do this. I do this to help prevent any man/father having to go through such horror and trauma. Awareness is key. He was thinking that his blissful marriage would never end. Well, it did, and in a horrible traumatic way. I simply want to make aware the damage that can happen to a good man who always provided for his family.
- 20 year marriage
- 3 kids in a beautiful house in a very nice suburban neighborhood well known for it’s schools and safety. This was his 3rd house that he bought and provided for his family. Obviously worked hard over the years after he met his ex 22 years ago in college (grad school) when he had nothing.
- READ THIS CLOSELY. He saw on the joint account (a joint account is a huge mistake btw and more on this in other postings) that she put a deposit on an apartment. She did not tell him. In that account was a side area to put away money to save for important things. In this case it was for a dance convention out of state for his daughter. Took most of it for that deposit on an apartment he knew nothing about. Sick of that to do anyway, but it was sick enough that she didn’t tell him. He had to find out by logging in and checking. I repeat, she did not tell him! Obviously he knew what was coming.
- Divorced him after 20 years of marriage. I could put in the details all that happed after he found out but I won’t. Obviously she made her decision to divorce him without telling him. The state he is in is a no-fault state, so she simply walked into the county court office, said wanted to file for divorce, they handed her the papers, she filled them out right there, and the divorce was in process. That easy. No questions asked. He’s never had been convicted or accused of (we’ll get to that in later posts) abuse of any kind to her and the kids. Never been arrested for anything. AKA, a good man and provider.
- In the state he is in is a 90 day “cooling off” period that is mandatory. He scheduled counseling in an attempt to address any concerns and hopefully stave off the damage he knows will come to him, BUT also stave off the damage will occur to the kids from the courts should this proceed. She did come, but was a “blame game”. No hope from that. He continued to see that person as the divorced process proceeded. One the first session he asked the counselor for his true opinion about her and that session. His brief reply: “she doesn’t care about you.”
- Telling kids is hard enough. For her though, he didn’t know she was going to tell them and simply walked in the door, called them down from their rooms and told them – obviously the shock was severe to them. BTW, he did record this so I’ve seen it. Making it worse READ THIS FOR SURE: his oldest wasn’t even here at this time! So, she did it without him around in a bizarre (as he puts it), rushed, irrational way regardless of anyone’s feelings. My friend told them he was sorry this happened to them and that he didn’t even know this was coming.
- As is with the apartment and with telling the kids, he had know idea, but on the following Saturday she showed up with a few of her friends (all but one he knows) with a moving truck and started taking whatever she wanted. He was obviously was in shock and not thinking straight, and with his daughter around stood by and did not cause of scene. Knowing that getting the cops involved is always risky for males and didn’t take the chance. READ THIS FOR SURE: That is actually “illegal” in most states in which a full agreement and an assessment of property is to be done prior to anything being removed from the marital house/property. There are different terms for this in each state, but if it is done prior to an agreement the property taken needs to be retuned and an assessment is done. And, when an agreement is done, most allow a “Civil Assist” in which an officer is present to as to prevent the person taking the property not taking anything not agreed on. AND, obviously prevent any violence from occurring. Sadly for my friend (I should say, I’ve known him since age 12; I’m now in my 40s so a very good friend so all that he said I believe is true) he did not know this AND, as you have read, anyone that this happens to will understand how deeply in shock he was – AKA trauma.
Certainly more could be said. But, I’m sure you all get the point. Like anything I post in this site it is all factual. And, as I just said I’ve known my friend since age 12; I’m now older so this is a very good friend so all that he said I believe is true. And, to back this up he has a camera on the outside of the house which shows the time and date so you could clearly see the moving truck, the people in involved and most of what was taken. I’ve been to that house numerous times so not only did I see the tapes, but came over after and could see what was once a family house full of life was now just a broken man now dealing with severe trauma.
So you ask Why MGTOW and Red Pill? Well, what you just read answers this question. And, this is just one of many examples!
We Can’t Make this Stuff Up!
I’ll do a video on this when time allows. Sorry, a working man doesn’t always allow such things. Please just look at that other videos and posts for now. And remember, keep being or learning MGTOW and Red Pill!