50+ Divorced Man is Now MGTOW: Why? He Let a Woman He Was Dating Move in Quickly: Huge Mistake! Don’t Do It!
Some say it’s ok for a man to let a woman move in when dating right away, some say after 1 year, some 2 years, some say 6 months, some say never. As a fully MGTOW man I say never. Just look at the facts. If you absolutely want to let a woman move in with you then absolutely have something in writing and signed by an attorney and then notated about your property, etc. Even then, you are taking a huge risk.
How do I know this? Well, again, it just happened to someone I know.
Please read the other post that relates to an older person man make a huge mistake when dating. Again, I do this because it’s real, it can happen. This is real and crazy stuff that can happen. You see in my videos has happened to me and other men I know.
Younger men need to listen older men. We came from a different time when divorces didn’t happen. For example, I knew my great grandparents, one went through World War 1! We saw the reality relating to marriage. No way divorces would happen then. Look at the facts now. It all started in the 70s when no-fault divorces started. The younger men now (my kids, etc.) met their grandparents who likely came from a divorce! All facts.
Relating to that, as I’ve said before, most men in their late 30s and 40s and up have worked on their careers. Most have been good fathers. But (again, facts) women Hit the Wall about that time and decided to get a divorce. When this happens men lose all that they of they have worked for. The horrible system allows that. Some women get rich, and some get all. Most men become a shell of themselves. Lose money, kids, etc. Just follow my page and others like this so you see the facts.
I was talking to a guy who I’ve known since we were about 13. As life happens, we lost connection. Another friend we both know told me that this guy I’m talking about here went through two divorces. Let me say it again – 2 divorces! Geeze, you’d think he had learned his lesson after 1 divorce! I went through one. It was bad enough (and bad still happens to me through that). Had we been talking so me he would not would have make the same mistakes and not getting married again, and likely become MGTOW. Remember, MGTOW is fairly new, so we didn’t know this stuff. I know him pretty well and guess that wouldn’t didn’t listen to me anyway, so he had to learn the way lesson after 2 divorces.
I decided that I wanted to talk to him to get his full story. His first mistake was enough, but he married in his 20s (and I’ll talk about it soon I prior posts about ages in marriage). But then he made this other huge mistake in his 50s when dating and marriage.
As usually happens now men met a woman on Tinder, etc. Remember, dating is totally different from the older days when men met women through someone you know or others know, and not online dating.
He said he was lonely and thought she was the greatest thing in the world because she treats him nice (traditional). He couldn’t believe that women existed anymore and was very nice to him. Did everything for him was always telling him he’s the best and that he’s the best-looking guy that she’s ever seen, so he thought this is incredible. Now that I know about this type, she likely has the narcissistic personality disorder that happens a lot in dating these days. I’ve seen a lot of women like that.
So, he believes the lies and makes the same mistakes that a lot older guys do because they don’t won’t die along and believe the lies.
What did he do? First, he gave a her key to his house. This is the first mistake to make because a women would, with time, have the right to evict her if she wanted to divorce him.
She kept telling him that he’s the best she’s even seen and love him. He believed the lies, and slowly she moved in. Of course, he thinks this is great, and she’ll never hurt him. Well, I guess he didn’t see what could happen.
Eviction is different in every state, but here, you can’t kick someone out whenever want. Every Usually you have to evict someone if someone has lived at your place for certain days. Usually around 30 days they are considered a full resident and then you have to evict.
Eviction is a huge legal process. You could do yourself, or you can get an attorney to do it. Either way it’s a lot of time and money. At that same time, you must live with that person. She can then at any time make up a lie and the cops believe her that he abused, her then he gets arrested. He decided that he got an attorney because he just simply didn’t have enough time. Because, at the same time he lost his job. Wow. Talk about horrible things at the same time. He now has to pay 5K a month because he has been married 2 times. This one I’m talking about now is about 2 years old. Think about that. For at least he has to pay that for 15 years. Wow.
So, again I don’t do this for money. I just do it because I what to show you can happen. Especially, younger people that think that they have met the love of their life, and she’ll never leave. Especially if you have a kid with them. Again, I’ve shown you the real facts related to divorce. It’s true and it’s real and will likely happen. That’s why I do this.